[I am writing a book on hospice. One section includes 13 Things people should know about hospice. There are far more than thirteen, but I wanted a manageable list for someone suddenly trying to learn about hospice. Below are the first six.
I ask for your help. What was missed that you think should be known about hospice? Maybe your suggestion will be similar to one of the remaining seven not included here. Or maybe it will help me add a better one! I look forward to suggestions.]
#1 – Hospice is (not) about giving up.
When hospice is considered, many people (including doctors) declare a variation of: “There’s nothing more we can do.” No cures remain. No procedures will stop the disease’s progression. No cutting-edge experimental drugs will make a difference. It’s time to throw in the towel, cash in the chips, raise the white flag . . . hey, wait!
Hospice, with its six months or less to live, is designed to maximize time with family, to express and/or receive love, forgiveness, and gratitude. Hospice care can include long chats about today and shared memories about yesterday. Unfortunately, many patients are near death when entering hospice. [Based on 2016 data, 27.9% of patients die in a week or less.] I do think too many wait too long to even consider hospice. Since hospice is a choice, and allows people to be at home and engage with the loved ones in their life, it is not about giving up. It is a choice to make the most of every precious day. Read More →by