It won’t be the first thing hospice asks you, but it’s important.
“Is it safe?”
The above was not a query from hospice, but the riveting question posed in the 1976 film Marathon Man. During a grim, crucial scene, Laurence Olivier’s menacing character demanded—as he wielded dental equipment in the worst way—to know if his scheme could be safely accomplished.
Dustin Hoffman’s “innocent man” paid an excruciating price for every hesitation, every uncertainty.
I sometimes thought of the Olivier-Hoffman confrontation when one of the hospice’s social workers announced a patient’s house was “safe.” During the discussion about a new patient entering hospice care, the “safe question” must be asked and answered.
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